~ Very important... Some resorts in Los Cabos (cabo san lucas & San Jose del Cabo) for the most part are flexible on who you bring or who you want to have at your wedding, so make sure that first you know that your the boss at your wedding and you can have whatever you want as long as you go with the rules of the hotel, so make sure that you like the rules of the hotel chosen before you pay the deposit, your wedding photos will be there forever in your living room and that is what you will see for the rest of your life so choose well.

If you choose a strict hotel on vendor policies, find out if they have the vendors you want and if not try to talk to them if they will let you have what you want/need. Or if they have a vendor that matches your needs in every way. Its very important that you know that sometimes the creativity that a vendor has or the talent that they might have can only be done by one individual and if you really like a vendor and the hotel does not let you have him or she, you might want to talk to the hotel or venue about why you want a specific talent for your specific need, I am sure they will understand.

Its very important that you know that sometimes the creativity that a vendor has or the talent that they might have can only be done by one individual and if you really like a vendor and the hotel does not permit that specific vendor, you might want to tell them about the talent that your looking for, some resorts will understand but as you know some will not, so put things in perspective as to what is most important.

Please do your homework in finding out about every vendor from the area to see what you like, it could happen that some resorts have not met certain vendor and if you really like the vendor, you could talk to the resort about having that specific vendor at your wedding.

Most hotels or resorts will only send you a list of 3 to 5 vendors in each category, they do this to make things easier for you and for them, and most of the time they will not have a problem if you decide you want ssomeone else, just let them know of the choice you made.

Fees: Very few hotels will ask you for a fee on a day pass, this sometimes happens on all inclusive hotels, so make sure you check this out.

~ The minimum age for adult only is usually around 16-18.

"Adult only" hotels have a much quieter, relaxing atmosphere than the ones where kids are allowed. The quality of rooms, restaurants and service are a "cut above" the rest. They are tailored to adults who want to enjoy the beauty and calmness of their surroundings without distractions.

Of course if you have a flower girl or ring bearer joining you the choice is obvious. These resorts usually have two pools: one with games and music for the younger crowd, and also a more secluded adult pool, so everyone can enjoy the vacation in their own way.

~ Privacy is usually a big concern among brides, whether they are being married in their home town or travelling to a tropical destination.

The Mexico destination couple may envision their wedding on a remote section of beach sharing their vows with only each other, their guests, and Mother Nature. If this sounds like you, you will need to be very careful when choosing a resort.

Although some resorts can offer exactly what you are looking for, others just can't offer as much privacy. For example, hotels that are found within Playa Del Carmen are sharing the beach with many other resorts, as well as the locals (like us!). These beaches get very busy and beach weddings tend to attract a lot of uninvited guests. Such resorts may offer a garden gazebo or more private location away from the busy beach.

Sand is also a consideration. If you imagine yourself barefoot as you approach your soon to be husband, then sand is the perfect choice. High heals... not so conducive to sand.

Sun or shade? Gazebos offer shade for you and your guests. That Mexican sun can get pretty hot but it's probably part of the reason you chose to get married here! Don't worry, even when the ceremony location is in full sun the wedding coordinator will keep your guests in the shade until the ceremony is ready to begin.

~ Is it important for you to have a private area available for your reception and dance?

Not all wedding packages offer a private location for your party afterwards. Be sure to inquire about the available options, capacity of each, and whether or not there will be extra fees associated to booking them.

~ There can be multiple weddings per day at the resort you choose.

If other brides have booked prior to you, they will have first pick of the time and location of their events. Some resorts have organized their packages in a way that the schedule for each wedding will flow nicely and not have too much "wasted" time between the ceremony and reception. The earlier your day begins the more filler you will need to keep your guests entertained. Even a perfect schedule for the day, will have you worn out by the end of it. If possible, make sure your times are solidified at the time of your booking.

In the end, whichever resort you choose, the important thing to remember is that you are marrying your best friend and your family has travelled from far and beyond to witness this important milestone between the two of you. Have fun, be yourself, and the rest will fall into place!

~ The more color, interesting architecture & mature vegetation the better for your images.

After the ceremony, I will take the bride and groom around the resort for some newlywed images. A couple key elements that I will look for in order to create fantastic shots are color, interesting light, and architecture. The more of this we can find around the resort, the better!!

Consider as well that the ocean is a great backdrop! Although the resort aesthetics can offer some colorful and unique images, it will not make or break the quality of the shots. After all, I am trained to find beauty where it may not be obvious at first glance.